Energetic Connections

Where is my soul?

In previous posts I wrote in a briefly about “missing parts” and “energetic attachments” and in this post the subject is “energetic connections”. As I promised I’ll elaborate later on those subjects by bringing many examples.

The issue of energetic connections is interesting because of the fact that it’s connected directly to each and every one of you.

What are “energetic connections”?

Well, the name says it all. We can visualize an energetic connection as a rope, a string, a thread, a hose, a pipe or any other variation of that, and it connects two or more things or as in this case - people.

When we are connected energetically to someone it allows his energy to leak into us and our energy to leak into him. Think about it: our energy, which we need is leaking from us to somebody else and more than that - this energy is “foreign” to his, and not necessarily good for him and, in all probability, he isn’t even aware that he is “nurtured” by it. Energy from him is flowing toward us too. Is it the best way to be related or connected to someone?

We have all been taught that a connection between people is positive and good. All of us are part of the same tapestry. I’m not against it, but on one condition: that this connection is not energetic! Furthermore, I would say that any connection which is energetic is exhausting, difficult and wrong from the point of view of the personal development of each of us, and it’s a big source of troubles here and now as well as in the near and far future.

I don’t think that in order to love someone, to care for him, to have compassion for him, to have good relationships with him we need an energetic connection, even when we talk about parents, children, partners and more.

Even if the connection is established with a good intention, from a need of a real connection, out of care etc., this energy movement, this connection, doesn’t allow those two people to become two individual units who help, support and love each other, but instead they depend on one another whether they like it or not.

Energetic connections happen through a lack of consciousness and understanding and because of ignorance. The result is that we have in us an energetic layer over which we do not have any control.

Check all the people with whom you have any kind of a relationship – family, friends, co-workers and more - from this point of view, from the energetic aspect, and try to feel if there is any leak of energy from you to them and vice versa? Is it good for you? And if yes why?

To give a simple and clear example let’s say there are two people who love each other very much, and who are also energetically connected.  . In a case when one of them dies before they had the chance to disconnect themselves from each other, there is a big risk, just because of this connection, that when one is gone the other that is still attached to him will tend to follow, not out of consciousness, not out of a personal decision, but only because they are like two balloons tied to one another so that when one is flying off, the other is dragged after him.

Not to mention the issue that even after death both of them will continue together. There are many stories about energetic connections from past lives that were dragged into the present life and complicated it.

Another simple example: think how much it would have been easy on couples that are going through a divorce, if they would have been disconnected energetically from each other! From my experience I can say that as soon as those couples disconnected from each other the whole separation process was reasonable and easier from the emotional and financial aspects and was less painful for the children.

As I wrote earlier, the energetic layers are the basis. So, in this case of energetic connections too, disconnecting them will bring out many positive influences.

I try to explain to you, my dear readers that it is very important to disconnect any energetic connection that you have with anyone in this life and to check if you have any from your past lives. I would like to emphasize that disconnecting from someone energetically doesn’t mean that you don’t love them, care for them, or be there for them when it’s needed; on the contrary - you’ll do it as a conscious choice and not an automatic one.

To disconnect is a conscious and simple process which will allow you very soon to be relieved and to feel the change in yourself.

I suggest again: take a few minutes, sit quietly, calmly, and check your energetic connections to people, their nature, the impact they have on you and maybe on the others too etc.

In the next post I’ll illustrate this topic with a real story.

After we disconnect energetically from people, not only does it allow us to clean energies which are not ours, but it grants us the possibility to transfer easily delicate energies of Light, Love and Compassion.

In this moment I stop, making sure my soul is with me in her proper place, I’m connecting to the Universe and transferring to you my readers Light, Love and Compassion.

Esty