Where
is my soul?
Don’t
forget to stop, ask and even try to answer the question.
In
my last post I tried to explain to you, my readers, about the importance of
disconnecting energetic connections. In this one I would like to bring to you
one story out of many and hope that it’ll help you to understand better what I
mean. In time there will be other stories from different angles.
A
forty years old woman asked me for help in coping with her father’s severe
illness. She said she knew he was dying and she needed tools to prepare. I
explained to her that when someone was dying the first and foremost thing to do
was to detach him energetically from all his family and any other important
people in his life in order to allow him to leave the world without any
energetic ties that could prevent him from continuing. The same was true for
her. The most important thing she could do was to untie him energetically and
let him go. This would have made things easier on him and on her. She
understood in her mind what I explained and said: “yes, let’s do it”. But when
we checked the energetic connections between them she saw that he was connected
to her in different areas in her body and that she was connected to him, mostly
in the legs, and of course, that he was getting energy from her through these
connections.
Just
before the detachment she raised the question: “if he will not be connected to me
won’t he be unable to “enjoy” my energy?” The answer was: “True, you will stop
supplying him with energy”. It scared her very much. She felt her role as his
daughter was to go on supplying him with energy until he dies. She felt that if
she will disconnect him from this energy source he will die.
I
asked her whether she really thought that if she went on supplying her father
with energy he would not die. She replied that she knew he will die but maybe
it could be delayed. So I asked her if she did not think that the fact she was
supplying energy to her father was keeping him alive more than he would have
liked. Maybe he’d rather stop suffering? I asked her what would happen to these
energetic connections when he dies and she said she didn’t know.
Another
question was: Was she aware of what this situation, when she was effectively
leaking away energy, was doing to her, to her life, to her nuclear family?
People
in our world have forgotten how to die right. This is the reason why death is
always accompanied by a very great fear: the body’s fear of extinction.
This
has an influence on the behavior of people all along their lives and of course
at the moment of death.
I will return and expand on this subject of how to die
right later in this blog.
I
would define the subject as “Dying right is a Dying art”.
The
woman decided she would detach energetically from her father and would also
explain to him later on what she did and why. After the disconnection she
enveloped her father with the energy of light, love and compassion and she saw
that he was really enjoying the feeling. I explained to her that what she can
do every day, until the day he died, was to connect to the universe and envelop
him in this light, love and compassion energy. This was not her energy; it was
the energy of the universe and yes, it could calm her father and make him
happy. Furthermore, it would not deplete her energy. She would only function as
a vessel and would benefit from it as well because of the energy passing
through her.
There’s
no doubt that the sending of light love and compassion energy is a great tool
for each of us as well as for other people as I wrote about it in previous
posts. It’s cosmic energy in three different layers: a layer of a wide and open
cosmic light, a layer of love which is a more focused energy coming from
light-beings, and a layer of compassion – which is an intermediate layer that
is functioning as a bridge between the universe and people.
Undoubtedly, when a dying man can receive the
light love and compassion energy, consciously and every day (or even more than
once a day) it will calm both him and his soul. This kind of action does not
create energetic connections with the one to whom we are sending the light love
and compassion energy.
For
the woman, the sending of light love and compassion energy to her father was a
much better and effective tool than supplying him with energy out of herself.
After
the detachment the woman felt a great relief, especially in the areas where her
father has been connected to her. In the next meeting she reported that she had
had a very good talk with her father. She shared with him her insights and the
work she had done. She said that he reacted with light in his eyes, and she was
certain of some comprehension on his side. She added that she felt that from
this moment on she would have more strength to prepare him and herself for his
departure, even beyond the detachment she has already done. We agreed that she
would envelop him in light love and compassion energy at least once a day, and
hopefully even more frequently. She understood that this energy, coming from
the universe, would nurture his soul and would help her to reconnect to an
energy that could nurture her too. In addition she would try and work with her
father on his energetic detachment from his relatives, as much as he could.
The
agreement between us was that she would try and explain to him and to properly
prepare him for the exact moment of death, and especially to agree with him
that when he would die she would ask the universe for help and request an
escort for his soul.
The
woman said that detaching from her father, sending him light love and
compassion energy, and helping to prepare him to die, were the best and most
positive tools for her in dealing with his departure. Instead of sitting down,
weeping and feeling generally helpless and full of emotions, it called for
observation, consciousness and a positive work.
Several
months later, after her father had passed away, she told me that she had been
aware of his soul and has asked for help in releasing his soul and that
everything around was full of light love and compassion. The whole process
enabled her to deal with her father’s departure and there was no doubt that it
had helped her father in his last months and at the moment of death.
I
send you all Light, Love and Compassion
Esty
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